Things go from bad to worse and we wonder if we actually did the right thing in getting married in the first place. Neither side seems to want to say sorry and the stoney silence lasts for days.

Well, here’s a trick that came to me while I was . . . → Read More: Remember Your Engagement Party…]]> Sometimes we find ourselves at loggerheads with our spouse.

Things go from bad to worse and we wonder if we actually did the right thing in getting married in the first place. Neither side seems to want to say sorry and the stoney silence lasts for days.

Well, here’s a trick that came to me while I was at the engagement party of my neice, Louise.

Louise and Lee are so happy. Everything is right in their world and they radiate their happiness to all around them. In fact they simply ooze love!

When things seem to be less than perfect in our own marriage.  Or your partner just does not want to talk to you. Remind them of how you both felt when you were engaged.

Tell them once again the dreams and expectations you had. How they were everything to you and remind yourselves of the feeling that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with them.

Remember how you used to laugh together and you will then see that whatever is causing a problem is but a tiny drop in the ocean and hardly registers in the big scheme of things.

Bob Lampard